You have probably heard this expression. If not, the point is that you have more success persuading and influencing someone if you are nice.
Paul talks about using a similar approach with people. In 2 Timothy 2:25,26 Paul writes, Be humble when you are trying to teach those who are mixed up concerning the truth. For if you talk meekly and courteously to them, they are more likely, with God's help, to turn away from their wrong ideas and believe what is true. Then they will come to their senses and escape from Satan's trap of slavery to sin, which he uses to catch them whenever he likes, and then they can begin doing the will of God.'
When we are discussing scripture and doctrine with others, we need to be patient and kind. We are not alone, God is working on them as well. Our message may not be accepted at the time, but we may be one step in their path to the Lord.
Jul 24, 2014 Southern Quote of The Day (SQTQ): You can catch more Bees with Honey than with Vinegar This is one of my favorite quotes and almost a fact in my life. 'You can catch more bees with honey than with vinegar', I always heard older people say this when I was younger. Southern Quote of The Day ( SQTQ): You can catch more Bees with Honey than with Vinegar. This is one of my favorite quotes and almost a fact in my life. 'You can catch more bees with honey than with vinegar', I always heard older people say this when I was younger. However, I never had an idea what it meant and how beneficial it would be in my life.
How Does The Saying Go You Catch More Bees With Honey
Dear Lord, help us have the confidence to present your word to others, courteously, as Paul says. Help us realize that we don't need to 'win' the argument, just present your truth as we understand it. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.
Basic Grey Herbs and Honey And Capture: So, now that we've lured you in with this 'Honey' sweet post, make sure you make it to the store and 'Capture' your favorites before our other busy bees beat you to it!
'You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar,' my Grandma Rita always said.
Today's post is a continuation of the Grandma's Old Adages series. If you missed the first two, scroll down to find links.
Jody and I are big fans of teaching our kids how to advocate for themselves. When someone mistreats them (even if it's an adult), we want our kids to value themselves and their relationship with the other person enough to express their feelings. Plus, we know that being offended gives the devil a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). In fact, offense is one of the primary ways the devil steals, kills and destroys a person's testimony.
Our kids have to learn how to confront a person whenever they are offended and resolve the problem.
Get More Honey With Bees
How many adults do you know who are emotionally constipated? They are so afraid of confrontation that they refuse to deal with their offense. Eventually avoidance becomes a habit, and they are paralyzed at the first hint of a negative emotion.
Tremendous freedom awaits those who are willing to confront their offenders. But…as Grandma Rita always said…you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. The Bible says it like this: 'A gentle word turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.' (Proverbs 15:1)
We have to teach our kids how to be assertive without being aggressive.
When they're dealing with offense, we have our kids practice phrasing everything in 'I' statements. To their teacher: 'I felt scared when you raised your voice at me.' Instead of 'you hurt my feelings.' To a sibling: 'I was angry when you borrowed my shoes without asking and left them outside. It made me feel like you don't value me enough to value my things.' Instead of 'Who said you could borrow my shoes? And then you left them outside! Don't touch my stuff.'
The car is a great place to roll play and have kids practice the art of gentle confrontation. With regular rehearsal, they'll be ready when a real situation happens.
Before you head off to the rest of your day, check out the first two posts in the series:
Today's post is a continuation of the Grandma's Old Adages series. If you missed the first two, scroll down to find links.
Jody and I are big fans of teaching our kids how to advocate for themselves. When someone mistreats them (even if it's an adult), we want our kids to value themselves and their relationship with the other person enough to express their feelings. Plus, we know that being offended gives the devil a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27). In fact, offense is one of the primary ways the devil steals, kills and destroys a person's testimony.
Our kids have to learn how to confront a person whenever they are offended and resolve the problem.
Get More Honey With Bees
How many adults do you know who are emotionally constipated? They are so afraid of confrontation that they refuse to deal with their offense. Eventually avoidance becomes a habit, and they are paralyzed at the first hint of a negative emotion.
Tremendous freedom awaits those who are willing to confront their offenders. But…as Grandma Rita always said…you catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar. The Bible says it like this: 'A gentle word turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.' (Proverbs 15:1)
We have to teach our kids how to be assertive without being aggressive.
When they're dealing with offense, we have our kids practice phrasing everything in 'I' statements. To their teacher: 'I felt scared when you raised your voice at me.' Instead of 'you hurt my feelings.' To a sibling: 'I was angry when you borrowed my shoes without asking and left them outside. It made me feel like you don't value me enough to value my things.' Instead of 'Who said you could borrow my shoes? And then you left them outside! Don't touch my stuff.'
The car is a great place to roll play and have kids practice the art of gentle confrontation. With regular rehearsal, they'll be ready when a real situation happens.
Before you head off to the rest of your day, check out the first two posts in the series:
Honey Beekeepers Near Me
Grandma Rita
